The "Break-Up" Blog

Once upon a time, a girl named Christina [re]met an old friend named Darren on facebook. They hit it off, talking so much they would have burned up the telephone wires if not for using cell phones, or run up huge bills if not for free minutes.

Sparks flew across the hundreds of miles between them. Months went by. After several Darren visits, Christina finally drove to his perfect town, met his perfect friends, hung out with his perfect family, attended his perfect church, stayed at his perfect house, witnessed his perfect ministry, and enjoyed the perfect scenery.

Okay, maybe they fell short of absolute perfection, but they were perfect for him.

On the loooooong drive home, Christina thought, “He will not be moving any time soon,” and that thought planted itself deep within her subconscious.

They continued to talk and talk and talk and their friendship deepened and grew to love. But the fluttery feelings faded as the reality of the distance grew more concrete. Six hours of driving, they decided, was too much.

At the end of the journey, Christina had found a man of great character, honesty, purity, thirst for Scripture, prayer, humor, kindness, loyalty, hard work … and a very good friend.

Though those around them may label such a thing a break-up, Darren and Christina believe it is a redefining of a true and lasting relationship and are grateful for the time they’ve had together.

The End. Except it’s not. A chapter may have drawn to a close, but the rest of the book awaits!

14 Responses to The "Break-Up" Blog

  1. Bonnie Leon March 8, 2010 at 10:40 pm #

    Beautiful and sooo sad.

    Love you,

    Bonnie

  2. NathalieLynn March 9, 2010 at 12:13 am #

    Goosebumps!

  3. Jeanette Levellie March 9, 2010 at 6:07 am #

    Your heart is right, dear Christina. God may yet move this boulder out of your way, as only He can do.

    Love you,
    Jen
    Audience of ONE

  4. Jessica March 9, 2010 at 7:15 am #

    Awww, I love this post. 🙂 I hope your friendships remains a sweet and beautiful thing!

  5. Sherrie Ashcraft March 9, 2010 at 7:28 am #

    The really wonderful thing, my dear daughter, is that you know the story eventually ends with, “And they all lived happily ever after.”

    I love you so very much!

  6. Donna M. Kohlstrom March 9, 2010 at 11:46 am #

    Love this post which made my heart leap with excitement about an incredible love story…and then to tears that it ended…or did it? I’m waiting to hear that there is a next and joyous chapter of reunion!

  7. Grace Bridges March 9, 2010 at 2:44 pm #

    You’ve done exactly the right thing…Applause! I feel it strongly.

  8. Anonymous March 10, 2010 at 9:36 am #

    God always knows what is right for you. He still has a man out there waiting to sweep you off of your feet. In time He will bring that man into your life. Patience is a virtue. 🙂

  9. Susan J. Reinhardt March 10, 2010 at 11:02 am #

    Aww, I feel sad for you, but you know where God wants you at this point in your life.

    When Beloved and I started dating, I knew I would be the one to move if anything developed. It did, and I did. 🙂

    Blessings,
    Susan

  10. Jaime March 11, 2010 at 12:52 pm #

    what a great outlook and a great friendship!! That is Truth and I love seeing it! 🙂 Hugs <3

  11. quietspirit March 11, 2010 at 6:13 pm #

    Christina:
    “Trust the Lord with all your heart and lean not to your own understanding.”

    God had a purpose for you and Darren to become friends again. We have to trust Him for that and for the future.

  12. Christina Berry March 15, 2010 at 8:41 am #

    It has been a wonderful story thus far and you each play a part in it. Your prayers for my emotional health keep me on track to please God and follow His will. Thank you!

  13. Nikole Hahn March 17, 2010 at 8:31 am #

    Sad. I hope there is a happy ending to this book/life. :o)

  14. Anonymous March 24, 2010 at 12:35 pm #

    Precious Lord take my hand
    Lead me on
    Help me stand
    I am tired, I am weak, I am worn
    Through the storm, through the night
    Lead me on, to the light
    Take my hand
    Precious Lord
    And lead me home
    Precious Lord
    You’re the one
    That I built my life on
    You’re my rock
    You’re my hope
    You are my song
    You picked me up, made me strong
    When my way was all wrong
    Here’s my hand
    Precious Lord
    Now lead me home
    When my way grows drear
    Precious Lord, linger near
    When my life is almost gone
    Hear my cry, hear my call
    Take my hand lest I fall
    Take my hand
    Precious Lord
    And lead me home
    Take my hand
    Precious Lord
    And lead me home