Once upon a time, a girl named Christina [re]met an old friend named Darren on facebook. They hit it off, talking so much they would have burned up the telephone wires if not for using cell phones, or run up huge bills if not for free minutes.
Sparks flew across the hundreds of miles between them. Months went by. After several Darren visits, Christina finally drove to his perfect town, met his perfect friends, hung out with his perfect family, attended his perfect church, stayed at his perfect house, witnessed his perfect ministry, and enjoyed the perfect scenery.
Okay, maybe they fell short of absolute perfection, but they were perfect for him.
On the loooooong drive home, Christina thought, “He will not be moving any time soon,” and that thought planted itself deep within her subconscious.
They continued to talk and talk and talk and their friendship deepened and grew to love. But the fluttery feelings faded as the reality of the distance grew more concrete. Six hours of driving, they decided, was too much.
At the end of the journey, Christina had found a man of great character, honesty, purity, thirst for Scripture, prayer, humor, kindness, loyalty, hard work … and a very good friend.
Though those around them may label such a thing a break-up, Darren and Christina believe it is a redefining of a true and lasting relationship and are grateful for the time they’ve had together.
The End. Except it’s not. A chapter may have drawn to a close, but the rest of the book awaits!
Beautiful and sooo sad.
Love you,
Bonnie
Goosebumps!
Your heart is right, dear Christina. God may yet move this boulder out of your way, as only He can do.
Love you,
Jen
Audience of ONE
Awww, I love this post. 🙂 I hope your friendships remains a sweet and beautiful thing!
The really wonderful thing, my dear daughter, is that you know the story eventually ends with, “And they all lived happily ever after.”
I love you so very much!
Love this post which made my heart leap with excitement about an incredible love story…and then to tears that it ended…or did it? I’m waiting to hear that there is a next and joyous chapter of reunion!
You’ve done exactly the right thing…Applause! I feel it strongly.
God always knows what is right for you. He still has a man out there waiting to sweep you off of your feet. In time He will bring that man into your life. Patience is a virtue. 🙂
Aww, I feel sad for you, but you know where God wants you at this point in your life.
When Beloved and I started dating, I knew I would be the one to move if anything developed. It did, and I did. 🙂
Blessings,
Susan
what a great outlook and a great friendship!! That is Truth and I love seeing it! 🙂 Hugs <3
Christina:
“Trust the Lord with all your heart and lean not to your own understanding.”
God had a purpose for you and Darren to become friends again. We have to trust Him for that and for the future.
It has been a wonderful story thus far and you each play a part in it. Your prayers for my emotional health keep me on track to please God and follow His will. Thank you!
Sad. I hope there is a happy ending to this book/life. :o)
Precious Lord take my hand
Lead me on
Help me stand
I am tired, I am weak, I am worn
Through the storm, through the night
Lead me on, to the light
Take my hand
Precious Lord
And lead me home
Precious Lord
You’re the one
That I built my life on
You’re my rock
You’re my hope
You are my song
You picked me up, made me strong
When my way was all wrong
Here’s my hand
Precious Lord
Now lead me home
When my way grows drear
Precious Lord, linger near
When my life is almost gone
Hear my cry, hear my call
Take my hand lest I fall
Take my hand
Precious Lord
And lead me home
Take my hand
Precious Lord
And lead me home