Not so. At least, not while you’re in crisis. I care about you readers. I care about sharing what God is doing in my heart. I care about having some type of recording of the death of my marriage. I care about sharing my day with you. But when I’m constantly on the edge of […]
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A Very Merry Un-anniversary …
To me … yes, me! A very merry un-anniversary to whom? Yes, me! Oh, I’ve had that remade song from Alice in Wonderland running through my head all day! Has it been a hard March 23? If I stopped to think about it, I’m sure it would be. The key is to stay very, very […]
Red Tape?
Do you see a pattern yet? My about-once-a-week posts? I guess the only time I can find to update this wonderful thing called my blog is when the kiddos are with their daddy. Or maybe it’s the only time I allow myself to relax at some level. There is SO much to do. I’ve been […]
Poison to My Bones
When one wages a war, there are times when retreat is needed. Gladly, the kind of retreat I’m referring to was a church women’s retreat last weekend. But, since I am warring with the enemy who’s seeking to destroy my family right now, it was needed. A few people were surprised I went, and I […]
Not Giving Up
I need to clarify my last post. With so many emotions swirling and so little time to blog, I’m sure you realize that I can’t explain or record even a fraction of what I’m learning or feeling. I’ve had a few personal response who made it clear they feel like I’m giving up on my […]
Can This Really Be Happening?
On Sunday night, February 8th, I specifically asked my husband a question I feel came from the Holy Spirit. Kev just started blinking … and I knew. I can’t even describe what happened to my heart in that moment, or what transpired between us. We were already in bed together, so after hours of talking, […]
The Unraveling of a Knit-together Heart
The evening of the 16th, we sent a longer version of this out to friends and family: This may come as quite a shock. With great sadness, we (Kevin & Christina) have decided to separate. We did not come to this decision lightly. In fact, we have godly professional counsel agreeing with this course of […]